No stranger to major life challenges
With a background in nursing and a PhD in Organizational Psychology, Dr. Karen Wade had a successful career as a management psychologist and business consultant. Then adversity struck. She lost her livelihood in the aftermath of the 2008 economic recession. A promising joint venture then failed to be funded resulting in the loss of her home, car, and savings. She was fortunate to have relatives to help her get back on her feet, and she returned to nursing to support herself. Real tragedy struck in 2011. Her 24-year-old son shockingly died by suicide after an arduous, but hopeful, year-long recovery from a serious episode of bipolar disorder. She and her family were devastated by the loss. The process of working through difficult challenges, including the loss of her son, has given Karen a unique understanding of what recovering from life’s unbidden adversities, even traumatic losses, requires. Read more about Karen’s life and professional credentials here.
Karen’s Keys to Survival, Recovery and a New Life
Name and honor the losses you are experiencing
Reconnect with your signature strengths and re-evaluate your deepest values
Invest in loving, positive, supportive relationships
Cultivate a hopeful, optimistic mindset
Try new actions known to enhance wellbeing in body, heart, mind, and spirit
Broaden and deepen your spirituality and/or relationship with Nature
Learn to listen to your body
Create an environment that is calming and comforting
I once imagined my life as an uninterrupted line from birth to decline. There would be some creditable achievements and great love sandwiched in the middle, of course, but time was a durable thing.
From Kate Bowler, How Cancer Changes Hope, Opinion, NY Times Dec 28, 2018
There are events that we don’t sign up for in life: a serious illness, an accident that leaves us or a spouse disabled, children who are ill or have special needs, we lose the love of our life suddenly without warning, leaving us stunned, heartbroken, and disoriented. Life is interrupted. The disruption to our sense of ‘normal’ and to our routine is so all consuming that major adjustments are necessary. Human beings are wired for adaptation and we have resilience impulses built into our brains. Even so, some events are so disruptive, so painful, that they strain our normal coping and adaptation mechanisms. Such is the case in events considered traumatic or tragic.
Post-traumatic growth, a concept rooted in the sciences of resilience and positive psychology, can emerge in the aftermath of even the greatest of tragedies. Science has proven that there are simple practices and routines that create wellbeing, allowing us to move forward into lives rich in wisdom, meaning, purpose, and even joy! Using her personal and professional experience, Karen has developed a process to encourage and support the process of healing and recovery after a serious misfortune, calling it “Adaptive Transformation”. The term Adaptive Transformation recognizes that we are being forced by unbidden, adverse events in our lives to undergo some major changes. To learn more about the Adaptive Transformation process, and to have an opportunity to benefit from it, please click on the button below.
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Karen Wade’s credentials include a doctorate in Psychology, with an emphasis in Organizational Development, and she is licensed in the state of California as a registered nurse. She possesses a national certification in Psychiatric Mental Health Nursing from the American Nurses’ Association Credentialing Center. She is not a licensed physician, clinical psychologist, or psychotherapist. The information provided in this website, and through her advisement services is intended for informational, educational and inspirational purposes intended to inform, educate, inspire and encourage personal growth following unforeseen life tragedies. The information on this website, and the services offered by Dr. Wade, are not a substitute for medical, psychiatric, or psychotherapeutic consultation, diagnosis, and treatment from licensed professionals in those domains. The user has sole responsibility to consult with those professionals to maintain their physical and emotional health as needed.
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